Reflect & Renew: Four Soulful Reads for the Holiday Season
Hello, my friend!
In the spirit of the winter solstice—and all the introspection that comes with these shorter days—I realized I’ve been itching to share a few of my favorite reads with you.
There’s so much goodness out there to spark curiosity, lift our spirits, or give us a new lens on our own experiences. So, I thought, why not gather up a handful of recommendations and give you a glimpse into what makes them special?
The holiday season can be an emotional rollercoaster—joyful and uplifting one moment, challenging or bittersweet the next. Sometimes, all we need is a welcome distraction: a captivating essay, a fresh take on creative work, or a reflective piece that helps us process whatever’s stirring in our hearts.
I hope these articles bring you as much insight and enjoyment as they’ve brought me. Each author offers something unique, and if any of their voices resonate with you, I encourage you to follow their work and subscribe.
Each has been added to my recommendation list on Substack. 🩵
, by
Recommended on 12/22/2024
Rediscover the magic of favorite childhood books
Jamie’s recent reflections on revisiting childhood books truly resonated with me. In the midst of our busy adult lives, it’s easy to forget the quiet joy of picking up a story that once fed our imaginations. Jamie describes the experience as “catching up with an old friend,” and her heartfelt excerpts and insights highlight the transformative power of rereading these beloved tales.
Through her words, we’re reminded that our favorite childhood books can be portals to our past selves—offering comfort, wisdom, and a renewed sense of wonder. It’s an invitation to step back into the childlike awe and curiosity that once guided us. So why not embark on a little literary time travel? Revisit a childhood favorite, and see if that spark of magic still warms your heart. You might just be amazed at what you rediscover.
, by
Recommended on 12/22/2024
I Keep Falling Over the Same Obstacle
Lori’s recent insights on repeatedly tripping over the same challenges really spoke to me. It’s so easy to feel frustrated when life hands us familiar roadblocks time and again. But Lori’s perspective sheds light on why these loops might persist—and how to meet them with a more compassionate touch.
Through her storytelling, we’re reminded that each recurring obstacle can be a doorway to deeper understanding. Rather than judging ourselves, Lori encourages us to see these moments as invitations to grow, inviting curiosity instead of criticism. By examining our “tender spots,” we can uncover patterns that not only challenge us, but also reveal where we’re ready for transformation.
It’s an invitation to look at your own well-worn stumbling blocks through a fresh lens, to explore what new wisdom they might hold. So why not give Lori’s piece a read? You might just find a gentler, more forgiving path waiting on the other side of an old, familiar obstacle.
, by and
Recommended on 12/22/2024
Why I Teach Even When No One Shows Up
Teri’s heartfelt reflections on pursuing a creative calling—despite small turnouts or even no-shows—truly resonated with me. She invites us into her world of canceled workshops and unexpected setbacks, offering a vulnerable glimpse into the emotional rollercoaster of trying to build a career in the arts. Amid the struggle, Teri discovers a quiet yet powerful motivation: reaching even a single person can make every moment of doubt worthwhile.
Her story is a tender reminder that creativity often flourishes in solitude, yet its impact can ripple out in surprising ways. By sharing her belief that every connection counts—no matter how small—Teri gives us permission to keep creating, teaching, and sharing, even when we wonder if anyone’s out there listening. If you’ve ever felt alone on your own creative path, this piece might spark a renewed sense of purpose and hope. After all, who’s to say what kind of difference your art might make for that one person who needs it most?
, by
Recommended on 12/22/2024
There is no timeline for mourning
Jeannie’s recent essay explores the intricacies of grief—and the well-meaning but often dismissive phrases we use when trying to console others. She artfully shows how these platitudes, meant to offer comfort, can end up stifling genuine healing instead. In challenging the idea that time alone mends all wounds, Jeannie reminds us that grief isn’t a sprint to “get over” but rather a lifelong journey of integrating loss into our lives.
Her perspective offers a gentle call for patience and empathy, both for ourselves and for those who are grieving. By acknowledging that everyone’s timeline is unique, she encourages us to approach mourning with greater understanding, allowing space for the kind of deep, honest healing that can’t be rushed. If you’ve ever felt pressured to move on from a loss, you’ll find solace and insight in Jeannie’s compassionate words.
About Alex
I’m equal parts old soul and curious wanderer, a farmer boy at heart, and a writer when I can wrangle my ADHD.
Guided by my work as a researcher, yoga therapist, and integrative coach—as well as my own lived experience—I explore identity, connection, and wholeness, inviting others to find meaning and warmth in their own stories.
If you haven’t yet joined me, I invite you to subscribe for free:
What a perfect invitation, Alexander. I’m honored to be included and looking forward to savoring all the pieces you have highlighted here. There really is so much goodness on Substack, it’s very nice to have a carefully curated collection. Thank you!
Thanks for recommending new creators to learn from. I've learned a lot from you this past year, Dr. Alex! Wishing you happy holidays and a fruitful New Year