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Jeannie Ewing's avatar

Well, Alex, I think you and I could have a whole conversation about this topic.

I contemplated the wisdom of the dark about five years ago when I was passively suicidal, and nothing and no one consoled me.

That's when I considered that maybe the metaphor of darkness meant something for the existential barrenness I felt. I thought of the things you listed, too - how beautiful things grow in the dark: a caterpillar in its chrysalis, a seed under the earth, a child in the womb.

Then I realized that darkness wanted to mentor me, to show me its quiet presence and teach me how to confront my own shadows and fears.

It was during this time I also read Miriam Greenspan's book, "Healing Through the Dark Emotions." Her language centering around grief, fear, and despair dramatically changed me. Fundamentally changed the way I understood darkness.

I think of the moon and how it reflects the sun, and now I see that both light and dark work in tandem - that one is never fully itself without the other. So I have come to love them both for what they are to me.

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Dr. M's avatar

Nice reframe. Thanks

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